If you have hundreds of problems, don’t be frightened by it because there are thousands of solutions you can think off and try =P… No matter what you do in life, always think positive and always trust that you will manage to overcome all the obstacles. I would like to quote from Anthony J, who says “Spend 90% of your times for solutions and 10% of your times for problems”. For me, this is a great model in problem solving because by spending too much time on problems, we tend to increase the number of problems that we had and overlook the positive sides of each problem. However, if we allocate more time to ponder on solutions, we’ll get many benefits.
No matter how hard your problem is, never give up. Always look at the bright side and remember everything happens for a reason and there is One who knows best. Sometimes He just delays what we wish for, but later, He grants us something invaluable. Only then, we realize that there is a reason why we didn’t get what we dream of earlier. Never let others demotivate you; believe that no one can stop you from fulfilling your dreams. Try your best in everything you do and always bear in mind that you shape your own destiny.
Never live this life with “what if”, there is no such thing as if and if… When something bad happen, reflect on it and try to look for the good things that we managed to learn from that experiences. When we fail to get our wishes, ponder back at the effort we put in getting those wishes. Is it parallel, is it enough? If not, then try again, if we had tried our best but still fail, don’t lose hope, there is always another chance. Do not put high expectation in ourselves, know our limit, and set our goal according to our ability. Don’t try to imitate others and never follow blindly. Always use our reasoning in determining our decisions. Don’t let others manipulate you! Have faith in yourselves.
Never say it’s too late to change, as long as we are living in this world, we can always try to be a better person. Never say no to opportunities and never feel afraid of trying. Sometimes, we need to face failure before we can open the door to success. Confidence comes not from always being right but from not fearing of being wrong. Mistakes, failure and disappointment make us a mature person. Learn from our past and live the present.
Whatever you do in life must make you happy, don’t commit yourselves in something you are not willing to do; this will hinder your productivity. Live life to the fullest that is the most frequent quote used to explain life. Why do you think so? For me it is to avoid us from feeling regret with what we have done. Make full use of every minute, hour, day, months, and years you have and treasure everyone you love =)…
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